Saying goodbye to Mr. Bad

“How do you know it would work?”

I sat up in bed. Does he mean what I think he means? Does he ever mean what I think he means? Do I ever think what he actually means? Is this ever going anywhere? Am I even going anywhere?

I answered, “What do you mean?” The easiest way out [...]

Sports reporting made a sports fan out of me

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Hearing this may not be a surprise to some of you, but I’m not a sports fan. No, not baseball. All those stats just make my head hurt. Yes, I know I go to football games, but it’s not for the football. Soccer? I’ve dated a few players, but the [...]

Will Obama live up to the expectations?

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Picture this: You’ve been pursuing your dream job for years, and finally you’ve got it. Now you need to relocate, find a great school for the kids and something that will keep your wife busy. After all that’s settled, it’s time to prepare for that new job of yours. As [...]

Wrapping my head around Prop. 8

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Proposition 8. Now there’s a topic.
Here’s what I can’t understand. I know I was raised by two amazing liberal ladies, my mother and grandmother, who believe in equality for all, and that may have influenced my “why do you feel the need to stop gay people from marrying?” attitude, but [...]

Relationship blog: When is enough, enough?

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Instant gratification. Dating in a world where everything is right at your fingertips. Even the term dating is … outdated.
We’ve been programmed to always want the newer model, trading in, upgrading any time we can. Girls in their twenties are working more toward boob jobs than bachelor’s degrees. Why [...]

Lived in France from January to May of 2007

Oh France.
A year ago I was packing. A year ago I had less than two weeks in California. A year ago I was eager to leave this country.
Things just weren’t the way I thought they should be. Life wasn’t happening the way I had planned. And I was tired of it.
The trip to France just [...]

This date is still my worst nightmare

This year; February 14th. That was the last time I subjected myself to a “date.” We’d known each other for two years. He was finally single, I somehow felt intense attraction despite his being covered in tattoos; we’d been dating for three weeks, and it was supposed to be the “most romantic day of the [...]

Journal from France: Nora

Before I begin, I must make a disclaimer: I am not gay. I support it, I accept it, I’m all for the marriage rights. I’m just not. As for bi-sexual? I think those people are just selfish. So eager for attention, they need to get it from both sexes, instead of focusing on just one. [...]

Shrek’s fiona was right: it’s what’s inside that counts (Column from Morgan Hill Times, August 06, 2004

I’m 19 years old and I’m standing in the facial cream aisle in Target trying to find the best anti-aging cream. Yes, anti-aging cream.

A few days ago I spotted a wrinkle on my forehead, and although I haven’t been able to locate it since, I know it’s out there, somewhere, just waiting to make it’s [...]

Lessons to consider before college (2003 Morgan Hill Times column)

The other night, while my friend Heather and I were swinging on the swings at Nordstrom Park, we both decided we would use the Snapple bottles in our hands to make a message in a bottle. The hard part? Deciding what I wanted my message to be.

The summer before my first year of college hasn’t [...]